Edit to Add: We are changing the start date (to allow more of you to join us ) to Monday, February 26th. This gives us all more time to plan and prepare, as well as talk with our families.
How the other half lives…and dies.
I have four children. When they woke up this morning I kissed them and made them a good healthy breakfast. 30,000 other children died.
….The disparity haunts me. How does a Christ-follower reconcile the needs of the world with the realities of every day life in an affluent nation? I just don’t know – but we’re going to spend a month trying to find out. –Tonia, Founder of 30 Days of Nothing
A friend and I are going to celebrate Lent for the very first time this year, and we’ve chosen to do so by experiencing 30 Days of Nothing.
For one small month, we will take a moment to remember that we are truly the rich of the world, that even though the third world is practically invisible in my little life, it is not invisible to God. I “suffer” when I decide to wait to make an Amazon purchase until the next paycheck. My sister in the third world suffers wondering if her baby will wake up in the morning, or die like the baby before him did.
Holy Experience writes here,
…I repent
of my greed
for more,
another book, another vehicle, another pair of shoes,
when the widows and orphans don’t have food, heat, or a place to lay their head…
I freely admit that for me, it is almost impossible to imagine not living in a consumer-driven world. I want, I want, I want, with very little need, and this has been my way of life from birth. So consider this a fast of sorts, a hands-on prayer for the suffering, as well as a personal reckoning for my own (usually unrealized) consumeristic greed.
“Is this not the fast which I choose, to loosen the bonds of wickedness, to undo the bands of the yoke, and to let the oppressed go free, and break every yoke?
Is it not to divide your bread with the hungry, and bring the homeless poor into the house; When you see the naked, to cover him…?” —Isaiah 58: 6-7a
We’re keeping it simple, this 30 Day adventure. We know that there’s nothing we can do to fully alleviate the suffering of the downtrodden or to fully experience their poverty, except on the most miniscule of scales, yet, even the smallest of steps is one step forward. It seems like that’s a good enough place to start.
For the next 30 Days, we will not be making any purchases outside of basic necessities. We will limit our clothing selection to a few simple choices. We will experience what it is like to eat the same simple things, over and over again.
On average, the people of Madagascar, or Malagasy, earn about $10 a month, Jay said. He said the country’s main agriculture crop is rice, and that it is such a staple of their diet that they eat it three meals a day and occasionally top it with beans or some type of meat… [full article here]
On some days, we will enter into a third world way of life a little more—a day without electricity, a day where we walk to get our water, a day where we all sleep in one room, a day where we work all day cleaning houses and recieve only pennies as a wage, a day where we wash clothes by hand. These particular things, of course, will change from home to home, as 30 Days is not a set of rules-to-keep but a fluid experience, one that we each can personalize to fit our own unique situations.
All the while, we will be privately journaling, recording our reactions, what it felt like, what we learn. We don’t do this because we think it will earn us brownie points with God, but more to make ourselves more aware of how the majority of the planet lives.
We want to identify with them, if only in small part, as well as take it one step further. The money we save by living simply will be given to World Vision and similar such groups working to give helping hands to the people living in 3rd world countries.
And last but not least: we would love for you to join us.
This is a no pressure offer, meaning no guilt for those who can’t participate or who don’t want to. If you are interested and have a website, please feel free to use the banner at the top of this page to help spread the word. My family is starting this coming Monday, February 26th (but if you don’t want to join us right now, please know that an ”official” start date is any day you choose–this can work any time in the year).
Some helpful links for those who would like to learn more:
Many bloggers participated in 30 Days this past September (2006). A few links journaling their experience include: The 30 Days Website, Fruitful Words on 30 Days, Owl Haven on 30 Days (scroll down and start at bottom), Holy Experience’s 30 Days—don’t miss her Walking for Water, and Just Enjoy the Journey on 30 Days.
Many others are thinking similar thoughts, both rejecting a consumer culture lifestyle and wanting to identify more with the suffering hidden from our view: Wiki on Buy Nothing Day (similar idea), The Simple Living Network (doing more with less), information about The Compact (similar idea), a woman who wore one little brown dress for a year as a project in living simply, or here for unsettling facts about fellow sons and daughters of Adam and Eve.

Also of interest, around the same time Tonia began 30 Days, another group had a similar idea and did a 40 Days as a church gathering, creating this (highly readable) pdf file, full of ideas, links, and interesting facts about 3rd world poverty. You can use as you personalize your own 30 (or 40) Days experience, to learn more about how the other half (or more than half) lives, or just to see the pink elephant in my living room.


















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Posted by Bryan Riley on February 19, 2007 at 5:28 am
Wow.
If you know you’re loved by the King, sing, sing sing…
If you know you’re loved by the King, live for Him…live for Him…live for Him….
Posted by Lindsey @ Enjoy the journey on February 19, 2007 at 5:35 am
Your eyes will be opened and you’ll be blessed for giving it a try. I wasn’t as “successful” as I would have hoped in our 30 days of less (nothing sounds so unfair, because as Americans even giving up, we still have so much). However I realized how WASTEFUL we are and we’ve learned to counteract that a bit. The experience has definately opened my eyes to the worlds true poor (America’s poor are even rich by world standards).
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Lent is an excellent time to embark on this journey Molly. I look forward to reading your thoughts on the matter, as always. Blessings & more…
Posted by Barb Moody on February 19, 2007 at 7:06 am
My family talked about this at lunch yesterday. I shared about tonia’s blog and her family’s experience, hoping my family would say “Hey, let’s do that too!” My eldests reaction, “What good comes out of that!”That did lead to more conversation though.
We will be incorporating some of this practice – using hillybillwife.com as a source for scaling down and eating more simply.
I think the kids will feel it when Friday comes along and there’s no pizza and soda.
Posted by Atlantic on February 19, 2007 at 10:35 am
An excellent (and ambitious!) way to spend your first observation of Lent. However, could I suggest that if you are going to do this as a Lenten exercise, that you should (preferably) extend it to all of Lent, or at least plan the 30-day period to end when Lent ends? Otherwise, you are going to out of sync with Easter – you will be ‘letting up’ and experiencing normality as a feast-like contrast just when you should be getting into the spirit of Passiontide.
And you can always ‘let up’ a bit on the Sundays of Lent, which are all minor feasts of Our Lord.
Posted by reneegrace on February 19, 2007 at 10:35 am
Bryan and I have been praying about LENT, and what God would desire from us this year…
Thanks for bringing this up again, Molly, as this may be the route for us this year… we’ll see.
Praying you and Lydia and families experience Him and His awareness of the world through this…
Posted by molleth on February 19, 2007 at 1:00 pm
Bryan, thanks for the link, brother.
Barb, Oh, that’s a great resource—she’s a neat lady.
Lindsey, That’s really cool.
Atlantic, we probably will do it for 40, but we wanted to keep it 30 since that’s how Tonia did it (and 30 seems a lot more do-able than 40, too).
Renee, thanks. Let us know what you end up doing (whether it’s 30 days or something else). This lent thing is new for me and I’m interested.
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Posted by Bryan Riley on February 19, 2007 at 1:45 pm
Perhaps some would consider jumping off the matrix into missions during such a “fast.”
Posted by Margaret on February 19, 2007 at 5:32 pm
We do not do Lent (though my Catholic extended family does, and finds it spiritually beneficial). However, every January our church does a 21 day “Daniel fast”–for people in our area and the culture here, going vegan is super hard. The bishop even had to remind people that liquifying your steak does *not* count. :p
For me, the hardest part was giving up my “need” to present a multi-dished, coordinated meal to my family every day. My fasting was less about food and more about overabundance and guilt.
Posted by Jamie on February 19, 2007 at 8:04 pm
Molly,
I have been praying about lent and a way to honor this time. This sounds wonderful. So, I sprung the idea on my family tonight…not much warning. We are talking and considering. My 16 year old was not too keen on the idea, but my 14 year old was all for it. We will talk more as a family tomorrow. I’m psyched about this idea. Even if we can’t make it happen by Wednesday, I plan on implementing it sometime in the near future. There is so much need in the world….we are so selfish.
Posted by molleth on February 19, 2007 at 9:08 pm
Myderbe, thanks for the link.
Margaret, that is really interesting! Thanks for sharing.
Jamie, very cool. I hope the later start date is helpful for you. It would be really fun to have you join us.
Posted by Rupert on February 20, 2007 at 8:14 am
Molly … such a great idea. I do hope you blog your way through the time; it would be interesting to hear what you do each day, and how you found it.
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